Foster to Adoption Process

[FosterMom78]

Hi, We were recently informed that our FS case is going to be changed from reunification to adoption... This is the 2nd time our FS has been taken from his BM and placed with us and she has not met any of the requirements to get him back. The state has decided to start the process of termination. We are obviously very excited that no one will be able to take this little boy from us again... but we are also very cautious because we know nothing about the process or the potential for the birth parents to try to re-gain custody at some point again.... Can anyone offer advice on this subject or tell us what usually happens etc?? Thanks! :)

[greengirly]

We've been riding the foster to adopt roller coaster with our FD for the last year. She was only removed once though, never returned with BM. The process should be shorter since it's the second time around, however if BM makes efforts in her treatment plan it could slow things up. Sometimes there is a jump to action at the end when Bio parents realize termination is for REAL. In our state once the child's plan is changed to adoption, the bio parent(s) still have the opportunity to work the treatment plan. For us the plan changed to adoption 4 months before the termination of parental rights hearing. Both parents rights have to be terminated (BD's are somtimes an issue if it is not known who they are or where they are). I didn't breath easy until parents rights were all terminated and all family was ruled out. You may want to check out www.childwelfare.gov this has State specific laws and statutes that will affect the case. You may also ask your worker if they have filed for termination of parental rights and on what grounds (from what I understand disclosure of this information can vary state to state). Most of all good luck and hang in there.

I also viewed your post in regards to therapy. Our play therapist told us she doesn't usually work with kids under 3. Therapy services were also difficult to justify with the SW, even though state medicare pays this. However if you feel a child really needs this or you need assistance with the child's behaviors definitely seek help! Advocating for your foster child can be a tough job!

Feel free to send a private note if you have more questions :)

[FosterMom78]

Thanks GreenGirly!! :)

[Ranana_Inharm]

Needed: Temp. foster for young 3-4 month Rottweiller female. Abandoned by owner in mobile home. No food or water since Thanksgiving. Needs temp foster until rescue or adoption placement can be arranged. Contact 814-229-1231 if you are able to help.-park manager feeding the dog, but she's still alone in the abandoned mobile home-got word late this afternoon - the puppy got a home will post details as they come in